Hey guys,
Well been a while since I blogged in not had the time or inspiration or been too busy living single in Nairobi. AS my 30th approaches a lot of memories come to mind; where I have been and where I am going.
At this point of my life I am enjoying my career, my family and new friends and new experiences.
Well as a Kenyan woman I am proud to live in a country that has afforded me many liberations as I live and work and move freely. But of late the Kenyan woman has been bashed...well it was about time the shoe was on other foot as we the bashed the Kenyan man so much until he had enuf.
Now must say it pinches; as I find myself always on the defensive.
But girls I realized aint cute and ladylike bein defensive. Yes we are jus as capable and are earnin and able do wat they do But....by us bein defensive and self relient we create a hard outer shell and seize being approachable, and the beautiful flower that God placed in His garden.
I also found out that one ends up missin out on the good experiences in life wen u always ready for 'war'.
So in a bid to try and turn and change trends and stereotypes of the Kenyan Man and Woman...I decided to stop wearing armour all tym but be more amour all the tym. I stopped each day to positively seek and find Good Kenyan men and Women and guess wat I did.
Thus my conclusion an attitude change can go a long way and if a number of us embraced it; would be a lovely place to live in.
Armed with this positive attitude looking forward to ushering in the new year in style; I have never felt more alive; more comfortable in my own skin and sexier. Please note these are not platitudes or cliches or self help drivel; I actually feel this way as in my 20s was all over the place one minute, unsure where to fit in caught up in rat race and unable to say NO.
The new me is easy, does things only when want to.
Try it and let me know if my recipe works for u as it is definately workin for me.
For now love you and shall be back soon.
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